Should I Stay or Should I Go? Living Through Home Construction
- Mollie Staretorp
- Feb 18
- 2 min read
It’s one of the biggest questions homeowners face when planning a major remodel: should we stay in the house, or move out during construction?
There’s no universal answer. But in Raleigh-Durham, where many homes are undergoing large-scale renovations, we’ve seen both sides work ... with the right expectations and support.
Here’s how to decide what’s right for your project and your peace of mind.
Understand the Scope
First, look at the extent of the work.
A kitchen remodel with no other rooms affected? You might be able to stay.
A full-gut primary suite overhaul with plumbing reroutes? Moving out could be wiser.
Whole-home remodels or additions? You’ll almost certainly want temporary housing.
Talk with your remodeler early about what to expect day-to-day. Dust, noise, and work schedules vary depending on the trades involved.
In our experience, homeowners are happiest when they fully understand what “living through construction” really means.
Consider Your Household’s Needs
Different families have different thresholds.
Do you work from home or have young children?
Is anyone in your home sensitive to noise, allergens, or disruption?
Are there pets who would be stressed by construction traffic?
We’ve seen some clients thrive on-site during a remodel, especially when they have clear boundaries and dedicated quiet zones. Others find it adds stress to an already busy season.
There’s no right answer; just what’s sustainable for you.
Temporary Kitchen or Bathroom Planning
If you’re staying during a kitchen or bath remodel, think ahead.
Where will you cook? A microwave, hot plate, and mini fridge can go a long way.
How will you handle bathing if your main bathroom is out of commission?
We often help clients set up temporary kitchenettes or stage alternate bathrooms during phased remodels. A bit of creativity can make a big difference.
Budget for Housing (Just in Case)
Even if you plan to stay, it’s smart to budget for a few nights away.
Sometimes timelines shift. Or a phase of demolition is more intense than expected. Having a hotel or Airbnb option ready can relieve a lot of pressure.
In one Raleigh project, a family ended up staying with grandparents for two weeks while their flooring cured - a choice that gave everyone breathing room and made the final reveal feel even better.
Communicate Early and Often
This decision is part of your overall remodel plan. That means it should be discussed with your design-build team from the start.
We help homeowners in Durham, Cary, and beyond think through their schedules, living patterns, and comfort thresholds so nothing comes as a surprise.
The more proactive the conversation, the smoother the process.
Final Thoughts on Living Through Home Construction
Whether you decide to stay or go during construction, it helps to plan with intention.
Home is personal. And during a remodel, it becomes part worksite, part transition zone.
If you're planning a remodel and unsure how to live through it, Arcane Grain can help you build a plan that supports your family, your schedule, and your peace of mind.
